In this article im going to give you a short book summary One of the best self-help book I've ever read named " Who Will Cry When You Die ? " By Robin Sharma I've always thought this particular genre as not-so-interesting, but I've never actually tried it before 😑....I'm definitely not prone to prejudice! Anyway, I really really liked this one. There are 101 chapters or as the blurb says "101 simple solutions to life's most complex problems". I agree! Its been a while since I read it but I find myself thinking about this book every now and then and subconsciously trying to follow what it says. I even try to wake up early. 😃 So it definitely impacted me. Lesson 36 is to read "Tuesdays With Morrie" so I'll be trying that one next. This book provides advice on how to be the best ver...
"THE SUBTLE ART OF NOT GIVING FUCK"By Mark Manson is a book that I've been wanting to read for a very long time I bought it at the same time as my I thought you are a badass because I was like I need some self-helpbooks that are gonna be very honest with me and very blunt about things actually be paying attention to in my life and both of them are a perfect fit for that mindset and this one is even more so than you are a badass I'm the kind of person who's very passionate about things and cares a lot about like my personal situations and like if something bothers me it really bothers me and I like get in my head a lot about it whenever I like talk to people about this thing they come from a very like loving side of it being like I'm yourfriend.
I'm gonna talk you through this situation and it makes me just think alot more about that but having this book that literally I don't know the person personally at all and they're being so very blunt and honest through out the entire thing about the things I should be giving a about it's very good it's a very good way to like change my mindset to be like okay I think a lot about these things in my life but how do I like take myself out of the situation and think about it from a bystanders point of view and page four of this book of Mark Manson writes about fixating on the positive things in life and how thatcan actually be kind of detrimental to how you are as a person because ifyou're focusing on the positive things in life and trying to find that positivity then you're seeing the things that you lack and you need to find a nice balance of positivity versus negativity to be like well I have these things that are really good in my life and I have these things that kind of suck but it's not like you're trying to balance out and be like I need all of these really really good things you also need to have some pain and bad things happen in your life as well he writes here on page 4 when you stop and really think about a conventional life advise all the positive and happyself-help stuff we hear all the time is actually fixating on what you lack it lasers in on what you perceive your personal shortcomings and failures to already be and then emphasizes them for you.
you learn about the best ways to make money because you feel you don't have enough money already you stand infront of the mirror and repeat a firm assin saying that you're beautiful because you feel as though you're not beautiful enough already ironically this fixation on the positive on what's better and what's superior only serves to remind us over and over again of what we are not of what we lack of what we should have been but failed to be after all no truly happy person feels the need to stand in front of a mirror and recite that she's happy she just is the thing that I really enjoyed about this book was how honest it was about the idea of giving up when somebody doesn't give up about what happens in their life it's not that they don't care at all is that they arechoosing what to care about here's the stinky truth about life there's no suchthing as not giving up you must give up about something it's part of our biology to always care about something in there for always to give up the question thenis what do we give about what are we choosing together about how can we notgive up about what ultimately does not matter that section of the book in particular made me really think about all of the things that I care about inmy life and thinking about how much I should be caring about that figuring outwhy it matters and if there's something that I care a lot about that isn't giving me life or fulfilling me in a certain way why should I care and giveup that much about it if it's something that doesn't give me a better and positive outlook and like yes there's the balance of that and good but Ishould be giving up about the things that actually really matter to me Mark Mason writes about emotions becoming part of the equation of your life and not dominating your life completely which I thought was really interesting.
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My rating - 8.5/10
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